How Technology is Influencing Families

Technology and media are everywhere. And it is not without effects. There is a new Barna study out that talks about this. Here is an excerpt:

Very few adults or youth take substantial breaks from technology.

Americans’ dependence on—what some might call addiction to—digital technology is apparent in the study’s findings. One out of three parents and nearly half of 11- to 17-year-olds say there are not any specific times when they “make the choice to disconnect from or turn off technology so they can have a break from it.” And those who take such breaks tend to be driven by convenience rather than intentionality. For example, only 10% of parents and 6% of teenagers say they try to take off one day a week from their digital usage.

This reliance translates into some interesting behaviors and habits. Nearly half of both parents and teens said they emailed, texted or talked on the phone while eating in the last week. Two out of five youth and one-third of parents have used two or more screens simultaneously during this time period. And half of students and one-fifth of parents have checked email or text messages in bed in the last seven days. The question arises whether families are in control of their technology or being controlled by it. (read the rest)

When Are Teenagers Ready To Date?

This past sunday I spoke to our teenagers and college students on how to have healthy dating relationships. Here are 3 ways you know if you (or if you are a parent your son / daughter) is ready to date:

1. When you have a picture in your mind of the “right kind of person” you will not settle less for (silhouette).

  • A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold – Proverbs 22:1
  • A good rule of thumb: If you would not marry this kind of person, then don’t date this kind of person. Date actual, not potential.

2. When you are more interested in / focused on BECOMING the right kind of person than FINDING the right person.

  • Cultivating your relationship with God and building character now is the best thing you could do for your future relationships.

3. When you know what physical / moral / emotional boundaries you will not compromise on in order to get that other person to like you.

  • Special note for girls: If this guy is pressuring you physically or morally, run as fast as you can in the other direction! WHY? He obviously does not respect and obey God. And if he doesn’t respect and obey God’s Word, then he will break your heart to get what he wants…you are worth WAITING for!

The Bottom Line: Being lonely with hope of a GOOD relationship is much better than being stuck in a BAD relationship filled with frustration and regrets…and worse still if you get married to them someday with NO WAY OUT.

“He who walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools suffers harm” – Proverbs 13:20

This is ESPECIALLY true when it comes to dating relationships. Click here to learn more about healthy relationships during the high school and college years

New Testament Scholar Ben Witherington Reviews New Book by Bart Ehrman – Forged

Here is a careful review of Bart Ehrman’s latest book attacking the reliability and integrity of the New Testament. One observation Witherington makes is telling: “I have already warned against Bart’s penchant to make global claims which cannot be substantiated by the evidence.” (read more)

Be on the look out for New Testament Scholar Darrell Bock’s review of Forged here.

Enjoy!